Sushant: could not practice what he preached in ‘Chhichhore’

Sushant: could not practice what he preached in ‘Chhichhore’

Life is Beautiful

‘Sushant Singh Rajput’ takes away his own life!

What one gets by doing this? Peace! Seemingly today he got rid of whatever situation he was facing. However, can he even enjoy that peace? Because, to enjoy; one has to be alive.  Ending life is no solution, as we don’t know what happens there after; that’s a mystery.

We must value ourselves and our parents who would have raised us with so much love, affection, expectations and would have sacrificed their own needs for our  wants, so that, we get the best . We have responsibilities towards our kids, who bestow so much of faith in our decisions and look-up to us as their natural hero. We must prepare and train ourselves, our children and siblings to face vagaries of life like a battle hardened soldier; accept failures and success with equal grace and fight back by taking learning from the past failures and not succumb to them.

We aspire and we acquire- wealth, fame, power, intimacy of our sweet heart, affection of near and dear ones, any material or non-material thing, on the altar of this very life.  However, none of these can become our masters, ruling our mind and heart, becoming bigger than our own life. Eventually, some day, when we are dead and gone, we are going to lose all of these any which ways!

We had come alone in this world, empty handed and likewise we would depart. So, why should we get unduly perturbed if we were to live alone in life and lose some or all of these goodies by the way side. Why moan for the things, which we only have created.

Solution of the problem lies within the problem; it’s just that we are not able to see, due to our mind getting clouded with anger, emotional drift or sense of loss. Those who stay put, may gain more than they had lost, provide they stop grieving over the spilled milk, get up and get going towards newer goals with more gusto, zeal and with a vengeance of a winner.

Shri. Amitabh Bachchan is an example of a ‘rise and fall and rise in life’. We call him a living legend, and an example to be emulated.

Mrs. Indira Gandhi, under an influence of famous ‘JP Movement’, had terribly lost an election. Many thought that she would run away from India. However, Mrs. Indira Gandhi gave back, fought back, tooth and nail, and regained power with thumping majority. We remember her as an ‘Iron Lady’ of Indian Politics, who had heart of a Lioness.

Shri. Dhirubhai Ambani, in the prime time of his career suffered stroke, which left him partially paralysed, but, he never gave up and carried on with his march to make Reliance Industries a world class corporation; we remember him as the doyen of India Industry.

We all would remember Mr.Irfan Khan who had will to survive and fought like a warrior in the face of death- A true gladiator who died fighting like a winner.   

Death of Sushant has deeply shaken us; we lost a wonderful actor. He was winner all along, could have stood the test of time as he had so much to draw inspiration from his glorious past records. He could not act well on the stage of life, when he had face-off with an unthinkable in his own definition and caved in. At the same time I  still feel their could be some foul play!

We all should cultivate good friends and family members, within whom we can safely confine, without having fear of being judged, as they can guide us in our trying times. Many are living a lonely world; maybe he was one of them, who saw no go but, go forever; sad indeed.

‘Winners never quit and quitters never win’ is a spirited old saying. In the game of life, we win some, we lose some. We have responsibility towards younger generations, and we must guide them with the dictum that, “no matter what, the show must go on”.

ना था कुछ तो ख़ुदा था , कुछ न होता तो ख़ुदा होता,
डुबोया मुझको होने नें, न मैं होता तो क्या होता ।

May your soul rest in peace dear Sushant.